Thursday, October 30, 2008

what is an exoticphile?

i thought my first blog on here should be to define part of the name i chose. No! i am not some new form of pedophile. it is actually a nickname that a friend gave me a few months back... actually i think the term she coined was "europhile" because i have a thing (or fetish) for european women (East European to be exact): a girl i am currently getting close with is polish; at the time(that the term was coined) a hot coworker was polish; and a former coworker, now pen pal that i see a couple times a year is from Siberia, Ru (more in another blog)... hence Europhile.
but why have "I" coined exoticphile? because for the first week or so i forgot what exactly my freind had said, and i was saying exotiphile, or exoticphile, mixed with europhile when i would tell people. eventually i would meet a couple of cute Israli girls and new that europhile didnt apply here and exoticphile did.
So...
Europhile: a person who has a taste or fetish, for the oppisite sex who comes from europe, notably but not restricted to Eastern Europe (former Block states: Poland, Ukraine, Russia, etc. and may include germananic countries such as Germany, and Austria).
Exoticphile: a [american] person who has a taste or fetish, for the oppisite sex who does not originate from america.

does this mean that i have given up on american women? by far, NO it doesnt. what it means is that i have lost interest in the insecure, petty, over eating, american women of my past, and that i still see everyday. what europeans hold for me is a certain beauty, quirk maybe even, and confidence in themselves that is hard to find in american women anymore.